I HATE MY HUSBAND SYNDROME.

Have you ever gone through a couple of weeks where you think to yourself " Who is this man and why did I marry him? When all you want is to go have fun with your girlfriends and drink? Where you just want to disappear from the face of the Earth?

Every time I have a discussion with My husband I try not to FORGET that we used to be civil and quiet and lovey dovey with each other. We used to not want to let go of hands when walking down the busy streets of NYC. We thought we were invisible as a couple. When you are single with no kids, life is just simpler.

I think that one of the reasons parents fight is because its your responsibility to raise descent,  hard working , civil, understanding , polite, ambitious and strong human beings. The mere thought of fucking this up triggers fights between parents. Every parent carries their own bundle of problems, fears and  insecurities in their unconscious. Raising children a full time job.
We had a fight  triggered by our daughter and her bedtime. He was so pissed he went to bed without having dinner, as if he was punishing me for not eating what I cooked. I guess he put himself in a time out. He woke up this morning and didn't even say goodbye.  I sat after the fight last night and had dinner with a glass of wine and thought. " I hope this just passes by quickly, because I hate my husband right now.

When in a relationship where you are responsible for two human beings, is it ok for a mere second to  just want to not be married anymore? Will this urge to strangle your partner pass?

It is healthy to feel this way because at the end of the day, you realize that this was the person you chose to marry and the person you saw in your future helping you raise beautiful smart children. Also you will see that after the kids are grown up and gone to college the romance will come back, just hold on to your pants for a couple more years and you will see it will all pay off.

Men don't change and you wont either. Just play the game, be strong and keep the fights to a minimum.  Remember to go out on date nights without kids and wear sexy heels. Maybe you'll even get laid tonight.